The Limits of Individualizing Parenthood in Serbia: Study of Gender Socialization of Children

Abstract

This paper seeks to explore the limits of individualizing parenthood in Serbia, gleaned from the example of gender socialization of children. The main thesis is that the noted limits to individualization of parenthood in contemporary society have a particular Serbian manifestation due to the country’s familism. The study traces the ideology of familism through normative aspects of gender structures within contemporary Serbian society, that is, by analyzing the presence and forms of expression of the patriarchal matrix in upbringing practices of parents, the most significant element of which is the ethics of good parenthood. The analysis shows that individualization of parenthood and more egalitarian patterns of gender socialization occur above all due to the dynamic within the marital relationship, one which abandons the concept of sacrificial parenthood. The analysis presented here is based on data collected in empirical research of upbringing practices in contemporary Serbia.

Fokus ovog rada je na ispitivanju ograničenja individualizacije roditeljstva u Srbiji na primeru procesa rodne socijalizacije dece. Osnovna teza je da specifičnosti familističkog konteksta u kom se odvija porodični život u Srbiji, ograničavaju individualizaciju roditeljstva. Ideologija familizma u ovom radu se prati preko normativnih sadržaja rodnih poredaka u kontekstu savremenog društva Srbije, odnosno kroz analizu prisutnosti i načina ispoljavanja patrijarhalne matrice u vaspitnim praksama roditelja, pri čemu najvažniji element čini etika dobrog roditeljstva. Analiza pokazuje da individualizacija roditeljstva i egalitarniji obrasci rodne socijalizacije nastaju pre svega pod uticajem dinamike partnerskih odnosa u kojoj se transformiše koncept žrtvujućeg roditeljstva. Analiza u ovom radu je zasnovana na podacima prikupljenim u empirijskom istraživanju o vaspitnim praksama roditelja u savremenoj Srbiji.